Knowing your own personality:

Know what pushes your buttons and what triggers different emotions within you. Focus on how you “feel” and not “likes and dislikes”. I.E. “I feel upset because of this” not “I don’t like it when you do this”

Knowing your Relationships:

Know how you show affection and how you feel affection. This is the most complicated part because it literally requires other people to discover. Effective communication is key here because without it, you cannot even begin to explore how you value others and how they value you. But when you are in tune with your own needs and also understand the needs of those around you, then you can truly begin to express appreciation in ways that other people can take in and value rather than solely expressing it in your own way and wondering why no one is responding to your offerings.

Knowing for success:

This is the big hiccup because everyone in life wants to be successful. In one way or another, people want to feel empowered and in control of their own lives. But obviously this involves knowing yourself before you can start forging your way to the crucible of success. And In order to be successful there are a few things you need to be aware of about:



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